“Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you – your taste may not be the same.”
~ Oscar Wilde
Each of the four types pursues, seduces, and works to sustain, or works to disrupt, relationships in different ways.
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY CHART
This chart illustrates what types marry what types, what type of children each kind of couple has, and how the traits of outer or inner boundary and parasympathetic or sympathetic nervous system orientation are inherited.
SEXUAL PATTERNS OF THE FOUR TYPES
Each type moves through all four feeling states and all eight emotions during sexual intercourse in order to reach orgasm. They start with their most accessible emotion and end with their most vulnerable or inaccessible emotion.
Here is the order of emotions for each type:
• PERCEIVER: excitement, fear, need, love, desire, anger, pain, satisfaction.
• PERFORMER: desire, anger, pain, satisfaction, excitement, fear, need, love.
• COMPREHENDER: satisfaction, pain, anger, desire, love, need, fear, excitement.
• CONNECTOR: love, need, fear, excitement, satisfaction, pain, anger, desire.
This chart shows the movement of the emotions of a heterosexual couple.
